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Announcing the Logan Strong Foundation

Announcing the Logan Strong Foundation

Jennifer, Kevin and Logan Fogg are thrilled to share with you the establishment of the Logan Strong Foundation*. The Foundations’ purpose is to help raise childhood cancer awareness, and to provide items of comfort and support for children and families, while they are fighting cancer in and out of the hospital.

Our initial Event will be the First Annual Logan Cup, being held at Western Turnpike Golf Course in Guilderland NY, on May 17th, 2018. We will be doing our Foundation Ribbon Cutting just prior to Tee Off and are excited to be partnering with many local businesses for this event.  In addition, we will be hosting a networking cocktail hour and dinner starting at 6 pm, following the end of Tournament Play, for those who wish to support the Foundation and efforts, without Golfing.

We are excited for this event, and the possibility for helping families during this very difficult process, which we have experienced first-hand.

Registration for the First Annual Logan Cup Golf Tournament, and additional details on sponsorship opportunities, along with the Cocktail Hour and Networking Dinner, can be found at www.Facebook.com/LoganStrongFoundation.

*501c3 Status Paperwork filed.

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2017 Reflection

2107 Reflection

As I look back on this past year, I am filled with mixed emotions.   It has been by far the WORST year of my life but also, the BEST year of my life.  I have learned so much, especially in these past 10 months.  I am not the same person I was this time last year.  I am changed, I am better and I am stronger!  I have transformed both personally and professionally; as a mother, a wife, a daughter and a friend.  I have gained many new, valued friendships and have let go of some that weren’t so healthy.  I have more patience and kindness.  I have found inner strength and courage I didn’t know I had.  I have added way more to my plate than I have ever imagined but it has taught me to balance.  (I would have never thought this situation would teach me balance.)  I am more focused as to how I spend my time and who I spend my time with.  So much good has come out of this bad situation.

 

So, to sum it up.  I’ve learned….

….to have more patience and kindness

….to trust and believe in my faith

….to believe in God’s greater plan

….to ask for help when I need it

….to balance my time

….to juggle a million things at once

….to put my son and my family first

….to focus on the positive

….that I am stronger than I ever imagined I could be

….that I have some really great friends

….and I also have…had some really shitty friends

….what is important

….when to let go and when to walk away

….way too many names of medicines and procedures I never thought I would know

….that mostly people are good

….that people don’t always know what to say or say the right thing

….that at the end of the day family is all that matters

….that everything happens for a reason

….to live every day to the fullest

….to let myself feel any emotion

….that my son is truly a miracle

….that my husband actually has emotions 😉

….that I am truly blessed with the best in-laws and parents

….that Childhood Cancer Awareness NEEDS MORE FUNDING

….that I work for an AMAZING company

…and how thankful I am to people near and far, who have reached out, even if just to share an encouraging word.  They say it takes a village; we are so truly grateful for the village that has encompassed us all in love.

And the BIGGEST things I have learned are:  Faith ALWAYS wins and Miracles DO happen!!!!

Thank you all for being on this journey with us!

Wishing you all a safe, happy and healthy 2018!

 

We are all #LoganStrong

 

#MamaStrong

 

 

 

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Scan 12/20/17

Sorry for the delay in updating you all. It’s been a whirlwind of a day. We are exhausted to say the least. Mentally and emotionally drained. Scanxiety is no joke!!
 
Thank you everyone for your positive thoughts, good vibes and prayers….THEY WORKED!!! His scan showed NO CHANGE, everything is STABLE and if anything, it looks better. His ventricles are smaller, which means the shunt is doing it’s job and nothing else is growing!
 
I popped out of bed at 3am this morning with a sense of ease that everything was going to be okay today. Went back to bed, got back up at 4:30am and started getting ready, packing for an overnight, cleaning the house and getting Logan ready. Arrived at Albany Med at 7am, scan at 7:30am. This is was the first time I actually watched them put Logan to sleep. He was so calm and sweet. The familiar faces helped so much!
          
 
The scan went well, then we had to go to Neurosurgery to get his shunt re-calibrated. The MRI machine tweaks it. He hates when anyone touches his head. It takes at least two of us to hold him down to get anything done!
 
After that, we went right to clinic. Surprisingly, I was very calm all morning and was expecting to wait longer before we got the results. But, Dr. Weintraub stopped us in the hall as we were going to get Logan’s height and weight and said, “I have the best Christmas present for you….the scan looked great!” She had even already spoken with Dr. Adamo and the radiologist. Everything is STABLE!!! The two spots that lite up on the scan are of no concern, one is definitely scar tissue and the other spot they think is just a bunch of vessels. I cried tears of JOY!!!
Dr. Weintraub was also very pleased with Logan’s developmental progress.  We all agree that being at home has been good for everyone!!
 
Logan also had a special visit from his girlfriend Miss Giada today! She gave him kisses and supervised me feeding him! She loves her ‘Logan Olmstead’! LOL 
    
And of course he got some loving from Miss Jess! 
 
We were expecting to stay overnight today for chemo but Logan’s counts weren’t where they need to be yet for more chemo. So we will go back on Tuesday for that.
 
We also had a consultation with Peds Surgery to put a port in Logan rather than have the double PICC line. A port is internal as opposed to the PICC that hangs on his chest. He’s more active lately and had been pulling at it. Thankfully with his new formula he has been gaining weight and it was decided we could put a port in in a few weeks, after this round of chemo is over.  A port is also less risk of infection!                               
 
Logan’s dressing over his PICC line was peeling up so they decided to change it while we were there. Well, no sooner do they start to change it, it starts bleeding. This has never happened before. Dr. Weintraub said that maybe from the Peds Surgeon looking at it and pushing on him, it may have just irritated it. She wasn’t concerned. The nurses then continued to remove the dressing they just put on to put a new dressing on, then the inevitable happened…..Logan jerked his body and POP, his PICC line popped out! UMMMM…..this isn’t good! He needs this PICC line to get his chemo and he still has more to get, what do we do!?!? Thank GOD, Albany Med has some of THE BEST STAT nurses. They can put a temporary line in his arm on Tuesday for his chemo then he will get the port next month. WE love you Lauren Reynolds Kirkham and Clifford Estaris!!
   
 
We were also surprised with a bunch of New York Rangers hats that were donated to clinic. Thank you Laina for thinking of us!!
 
And it was #turkeyday!!!!
 
We got home around 2pm and passed out. We are now just getting unpacked and caught up.
 
So, again….sorry for the delay and THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for the positive thoughts and prayers….they really work!!!
 
We are ALL #LoganStrong
 
#PuckCancer
#TinySuperhero
#MamaStrong
#StrongasFogg
#PrayerWarriors
 
 
 
 
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End of Round 5 (inpatient aggressive chemo)/Beginning of Round 1 (outpatient maintenance chemo)/End of Round 1

9/20/17 – WOW!  I can’t believe we are done with the better part of being inpatient for 6 months and aggressive chemotherapy.   It feels like the past 6 months have flown by but trust me, they didn’t!  It was rough and still continues to be at times.  Living in the hospital is the worst, having to pack a bag to stay with your baby for weeks on end is not the way any new mom expects to live their life!  Thankfully I was able to come home every few days, even if it was just for a shower or to get a good nights sleep.

But now, the real work begins!

There is still no visible sign of the tumor so Logan is technically cancer- free but I am not comfortable using that term.  Doctor’s call is NED or no evidence of disease.  He technically won’t be fully cancer-free until he has been in remission for 5 years.

It’s actually becoming a very lonely experience.  My husband is back to work.  My in-laws are still around but I am starting to feel guilty asking my mother in law for help all the time.  Both of my parents work.  All of our friends work.  So, it’s always just me during the day…alone, to not only take care of a sick baby but to also maintain a household and get some of my own work done, not to mention trying to work out and do “me” stuff.  How hard is it to take care of a sick baby….well first it starts at 7am when he wakes up.  He gets 4 medicines by 9am.  We then do some physical therapy, stretches, sitting up, etc.  We also practice the bottle.  By the time we are done with that it’s typically time for his morning nap (if he feels like taking one that day).  I then have at least one load of laundry to do from the morning or the day before.  I try to update his followers, check both my personal and business emails then it’s time to sit him up and try the bottle again.  Then on days we don’t have a doctor appointment or other places to be, I have phone calls to make for him.  Whether it be scheduling a doctor appointment, an at home visits, early intervention, insurance, etc.  It’s always something.  I am legit overwhelmed and have a million things going on in my head at all times.

 

11/5/17 – So much has changed since I began writing this blog post back in September.  We are now finishing up the first round of outpatient chemo, even with the hiccup we had.  My in-laws left almost 2 weeks ago now, so it’s mostly just Kevin and I.  THANK GOD Sari lives down the street and has been helping out A LOT!!!  There are very few people I trust Logan with and it’s not because I don’t think they will treat him well, he needs a lot of work.  Sari has experience with not just cancer and special needs children but she also ran a children’s play center.

I am trying to work more, as fourth quarter is the busiest time in my business.  I actually have to get up at 4am tomorrow, go to an enrollment, bring Logan to clinic then head back to my enrollment.  This is my life.  But I will do WHATEVER it takes to not only help my son but also my own sanity!  😉

People always ask, “Aren’t you happy to be home?”  And yes, I am BUT it is so MUCH HARDER at home.  I don’t have a call button to push for help if Logan gets sick in the middle of the night, or if I need a break to take a shower or go get a coffee.  I am “ON” ALL day long.  I get up at 5am, get Logan’s meds ready, work out (if I’m lucky) and get his feed up by 6am.  Then, I have to take a shower and get ready before my husband gets up to go to work, otherwise a shower doesn’t happen.  From there, the day is really a blur.  Between Logan’s feed going up and down about 4 times a day, he has therapy 4 days a week at home, laundry, dishes, phone calls, doctor appointments, emails, work, cleaning….the list goes on.  The next thing I know, my husband is home from work and it’s time to make dinner.  Then Logan’s feed goes up one last time and his nightly meds along with having to “flush” his PICC lines.

I have my moments, hard days, etc. but looking at this precious little boys face gives me the strength to keep going.  I finally made the decision to see a counselor and I did like him, that’s half the battle.  It’s just frustrating though because no matter who I talk to (professional or not), they all say the same thing….”you have every right to feel the way you do.”  Which is absolutely true, I just wish I didn’t feel some of the ways a lot of the time.  There’s times that I am miserable or cry for “no” reason.  Or I am mean, just because.  No one should have to live this life.  The one thing I did appreciate from this counselor was that he said, I need to reach out to people more instead of waiting for them to reach out to me.  He said because most people don’t want to intrude or know how to act or what to say, so I need to be the one to initiate the conversation.  This was an eye opener for me because I was feeling and thinking the opposite, that people needed to reach out to me.  But the truth is, the adrenaline is gone, the mama fight mode is faded and the reality of our lives is setting in.  He also told me that I have every right to grieve or to not want to do certain things with friends that have “normal” children, and that it was normal to feel that way.  That made me feel good.  It’s hard because I want to do things but not only am I super overprotective of Logan and his immune system but I also find myself comparing Logan’s progress to friends’ kids who are the same age or even younger.  And it’s so much easier said then done not to do that!  I’m working on it!

I wanted to make sure I posted something before we start Round 2 of maintenance chemo tomorrow.  Logan’s counts are good and he has been progressing so well that we are starting Round 2 a week early!  This kid is a true Rockstar!

Oh, and he can now hold his head up and can almost sit up on his own!!!!

I’m working on getting more consistent help (thank you Sari) and getting somewhat of a schedule.  So, I will do my best to update the blog more often.

But with that said….the next almost two weeks will be all about putting the finishing touches on this #TinySuperhero FIRST BIRTHDAY PARTY!!!  He will be a year old on November 18th.  You can mail him a birthday card to: Logan Strong PO BOX 2168 Scotia, NY 12302

Thank you all for continuing on this journey with us as we appreciate all of the love, prayers and support!

 

#LoganStrong

#MamaStrong

#StrongasFogg

 

 

 

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**Exciting News**

 

As many of our close family and friends know, I have worked for Aflac for over 5 years and yes, I am also a policyholder.  When Logan was born, I added him to my Aflac policies because he was in NICU for five days and I figured I might as well add him to all of my policies now.  Not thinking I would ever have to use my cancer plan for my son.  But what most people don’t know is that Aflac owns their own children’s cancer and blood disorders center in Atlanta, GA., Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta (CHOA), in which I have been donating to monthly since I started my Aflac career.

What is incredible (and ironic, let’s be honest) is that Logan’s chemotherapy treatment plan was developed at CHOA!  Working for an amazing company, being a policyholder, donating to an amazing cause and having Logan’s chemo protocol come from CHOA is an incredible experience.

So, with that said….

Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta chose Logan’s story to share with the entire Aflac sales force in January 2018 at Kick-Off meetings across the country! That’s over 16,000 sales agents in the US, with over 500,000 accounts and close to 10 million policyholders.  Logan’s story is going to be shared to help raise childhood cancer awareness and future funding opportunities for Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta (CHOA).

CHOA flew their film crew and marketing team up from Atlanta last Wednesday and basically turned our house into a film studio on Thursday.  It was very overwhelming and exhilarating at the same time!! They made Kevin and I feel very comfortable and helped in telling Logan’s story clearly and concisely. This in turn will not only help in raising awareness but also in funding CHOA.  These children are innocent and in a lot of cases need nothing short of a miracle. They were also able to interview Logan’s doctors (Dr. Weintraub and Dr. Adamo) at the hospital (Albany Medical Center).

We can’t wait to see the final video!

We are so humbled and blessed to be able to share our story!!!  To be able to share our experience with thousands of people to help raise awareness and funds…..#GRATEFUL

To learn more about Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta and how you can help, please visit www.choa.org.
 

 

  

  

 

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Reality – before round 5

As I sit here on the eve of Logan’s fifth round of inpatient chemo, also my birthday, I am overcome with conflicting emotions. Part of me is excited to go back to the hospital and finish inpatient chemo once and for all but there is another part of me that just wants to stop and not do anymore chemo. While I would NEVER not do chemo, the thought does come across my mind. Just knowing the discomfort Logan will be in in just a few short days, kills me! He has no idea that by this time next week, he will be sick, miserable and in pain. But on the positive side, this is THE LAST inpatient round of chemo! My biggest fear, however, is that he regresses and we lose the physical and mental progress we have made in just the past couple of short weeks at home!

Logan makes so much progress at home! He is now okay with transitions, moving from sitting to laying down. He likes to be held now. He doesn’t fuss every time we change his diaper or get him dressed. He’s really trying with the binky and the bottle. He’s swallowing very well. He’s putting his hands in his mouth. He giggles. He has a tickle spot. He’s very observant and interactive. He’s making all sorts of noises. He’s entertaining himself. He’s doing NORMAL baby stuff….it’s such a wonderful thing to see!!!

But one thing we need to keep in mind is that he has a serious brain injury. And by “we” I mean his fans, our family and friends and yes my husband and me, at times. And by “serious brain injury” I mean he had a large part of his left frontal lobe removed. So when people have commented or reached out to me recently expressing how happy they are for us that there is no visible sign of tumor in Logan’s head, I may not respond as positively as most would think. People have said, “Aren’t you happy/excited/ecstatic?” and to be honest not really! Yes, I am glad to hear that there is no visible sign of tumor but that is minor compared to the big picture of the situation we are dealing with here. Our son was diagnosed with a congenital glioblastoma. He was born with cancer. This is just a small battle won in the long war we are fighting!

While I (we, my husband and I and our families) appreciate the thoughts and positive comments, this is not over! Logan is NOT in the clear and won’t be for a number of years. He was BORN with a brain tumor and is at risk for it to return. To kill the cancer he will have 5 aggressive inpatient rounds of chemo and to make sure it doesn’t return, he will have 8 outpatient rounds after that. He will be on chemo for almost two years….that’s A LOT OF POISON!!! Logan goes back to the hospital tomorrow night for his last round of aggressive inpatient chemo (about 3 weeks) then he will start his eight rounds of outpatient chemo a couple of weeks after that. Each of those rounds is 40 – 50 days, so his immune system will pretty much be permanently compromised for the next 14 months or so. This also means, we can’t send him to daycare, so I won’t be able to go back to work anytime soon. Thankfully we have a large support network and an amazing family that have offered to help so I can go back to work sooner than waiting for his chemo to be done.

The other positive is that Logan has been approved for Early Intervention through the county, so they are actually coming over tomorrow afternoon before we head back to the hospital to do his evaluation. I’m thrilled because we just found out that Whispering Pines will be doing his evaluation and I have heard amazing things about their programs and therapists! I’m also happy that most of Logan’s therapies can be done at home. I do some exercises and activities with him now on a daily basis, including practicing with a bottle and binky but having someone come in, evaluate and track his progress is very exciting!!!!

Yes, we have no doubt that Logan will beat and overcome cancer for good. However, not only are we dealing with chemotherapy for almost two years, we also have to deal with any deficiencies Logan may have due to the two major resections and the side effects of the chemo.

So as we prepare to go back to the hospital tomorrow please keep Logan in your prayers to not only kick cancer’s butt but to also overcome any deficiencies he may have.  We will continue to keep you all updated on Logan’s progress and any major happenings. Thank you all for your continued thoughts and prayers. We truly appreciate it!

We are ALL #LoganStrong!!!!

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After Round 4

I have literally sat down at least a dozen times over the past few weeks trying to write a blog post.  I actually have had a few different topics running around in my head that I have been trying to get on paper (computer) but time just gets away from me.  I truthfully have NO time and when I do have some time, it’s spent doing tedious tasks and/or sleeping because I am beyond exhausted pretty much most of the time.  Now, I’m not saying any of this to complain because that is the furthest from my mind.  We all have to handle the cards we are dealt and honestly I am glad I was dealt this card.  Don’t get me wrong, my son’s diagnosis sucks and this isn’t the life any parent asks for, but I still believe that everything happens for a reason, and Logan chose me to be his mom for a reason.

So let’s start there….the time thing.  I have been asked numerous times, “What do you do with all your free time?” You would honestly think that not working and basically allowing other people (nurses, patient care assistants, etc.) to take care of my son would allow a decent amount of free time…NOT!!! This couldn’t be further from the truth.  There are days that I have no idea where the time went then there are other days (very few of them) when time goes by so slowly.  I have lots of ambitions and a list of things I would like to accomplish during my ‘free time’ in the hospital but that list just continues to grow and not many things get checked off.  I can’t even tell you what a typical day looks like because they are all so very different.  My son comes first so I need to make sure that he is taken care of before I do something I want to do on my list.   The nurses or PCA’s only check on him every three to four hours whether it be for meds, a neuro check, or vitals.  Other than that, I am on my own.  Logan gets physical therapy, occupational therapy, and speech therapy, each at least 2-3 times a week.  He has three doctors tending to his care on a daily basis as well as a developmental pediatrician that monitors him on a weekly basis. In addition to all of that, if he has a surgery or something they are monitoring he will have a specific doctor checking in on a daily basis, sometimes more than once a day.

I still try to run and work out while living in the hospital but I can’t leave his room if he’s awake.  There are volunteers that can come sit with him but I am very cautious and picky as to who I let near him, especially when his counts are down.  There is one volunteer, Annabelle, that is great and she absolutely adores Logan.  So she will come in once a day and play with him for about a half hour while I go across the street to the hotel and go for a run in the gym.  That’s typically the most “free time” I have.  Sometimes I sneak out when he’s napping to grab a coffee or just go outside for fresh air.  But lately, he doesn’t really nap.  He takes a few 10 to 15 minute power naps throughout the day.  So, needless to say….I have to be “ON” at all times; hence the exhaustion.  Not to mention sleeping on the couch there is not very comfortable and the nurses are in and out all night for his feeds, meds, neuro check, vitals or diaper change.

So, let’s back up to the beginning of Round 4.  Logan had a G-tube placed on Monday July 10.  We (my husband and I) were thinking this would be an easy, quick recovery surgery.  Boy were we wrong!!  My poor baby had the worst and most difficult recovery based on where the G-tube was placed.  Think about it…he’s overcome 2 major brain surgeries so why would a simple stomach surgery be so bad!? It was bad because there is nothing but fat and tissue there, unlike the brain, which doesn’t feel pain.  This poor kid was in so much pain.  It was definitely the worst recovery yet from all of the 9 surgeries he has had before.  They literally blew up his stomach, put three buttons on the outside to hold it open and placed what looks like the plug to a beach ball in his little belly.  Poor kiddo!!!

They only gave him two days to recover before they started Round 4 of chemo.  They started his feeds at 2ml/hour, that’s next to nothing!  There are 30 mls in an ounce, and babies at this age normally drink about 2 ounces per hour, so that’s about 1,440 mls day.  Dr. Weintraub said we could go home once Logan was tolerating 30 mls/hr.   So if we went at the rate of one ml per day, this would take too long.  Once chemo starts, Logan tends to get sick more often…understandably so.  The doctors then started talking about possibly putting in a G-J tube in a few weeks.  Mama Bear mode kicked in and I said “Absolutely NOT!  He will learn to tolerate his feeds!!!” The problem is that when he would get sick, they (the nurses) would typically turn his feeds off, which makes (made) no sense to me.  They explained why and it was; because they wanted to give his stomach time to settle, which I understand but how is his stomach supposed to learn how to push through.  No pain, no gain…right!?!?  So now, I don’t let them stop his feeds.  😉  Sure enough, within 21 days, he went from 2mls/hr to 30 mls/hr.  The part that sucks is that it’s 24 hours/day.  Another reason he was getting sick was that one of his anti-nausea meds was actually making him sick (thank you nurse Ashley for figuring that out!).   I knew my son would eventually be able to tolerate his feeds.  He is strong, he just needed to be given a chance!  I can’t wait until they switch him to bolus (more volume and shorter time) feeds.  He is taking milk by mouth via a syringe, he loves it. He is still struggling with the bottle nonetheless, but he does love playing with the nipple and getting milk as a surprise for doing so!  LOL

Logan actually recovered from Round 4 of chemo better than all of the other rounds and we were able to go home sooner than anyone expected…..ROCKSTAR STATUS!!!!

Shifting gears now….I had a huge realization about two weeks ago regarding Logan’s diagnosis and progress.  They removed a part of his brain!!!  How did I not know this???  Why didn’t anyone tell me!?!?  My husband told me I knew.  The doctors told me I knew.  Hell, I saw the damn images!  So why didn’t I know then!?!?  I think I compartmentalized it until I was ready to deal with it.  Makes total sense.  I get so much thrown at me on a daily basis that this was a HUGE thing to deal with.  No wonder why they (the doctors) kept telling me he may have deficiencies….duh!?!?  Actually realizing this and accepting the fact that they removed a part of my sons left frontal lobe was so devastating to me to deal with.  I think I cried for two days straight.   That’s why Dr. Adamo went in to do the tumor resection twice so quickly because baby’s brains are so soft and have plasticity to not only recover from trauma but because Logan hasn’t learned certain things yet from that part of his brain, the other parts of his brain can compensate.  Basically, he will just learn to do things from a different part of his brain.  We are also lucky enough to have the best doctors here locally in Albany and Dr. Lucas, Developmental Pediatrician, closely monitors Logan’s progress!  I have no doubt that Logan will recover from this and any deficiencies we may come up against we will work through.

So for now, we just push through chemo and continue with PT, OT and speech therapies.  Once we are home on a more permanent basis, we will have early intervention services assist with Logan’s ongoing treatment.  We still have a very long road ahead of us but this kid is such a fighter and I am so proud to be his Mom!

Now we are off to the hospital tonight for shunt surgery in the morning, a couple of days in PICU then home for a couple of weeks to recover before Round 5.  I will do my best to try to write more and keep everyone updated.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and letting me share our story.  We truly appreciate everyone’s continued positive thoughts and prayers!

WE ARE ALL #LOGANSTRONG

 

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End of Round 3

As I sit here thinking about the past few months, I can’t believe all that our family has been through and has overcome already.  I am so excited that we finally get to go home tomorrow for nine days, it feels so surreal!!!!  I am beyond ecstatic and cried tears of joy when I found out.  A break from the hospital is much needed!  These past almost four months have been wearisome to say the least, we’ve only been home for five days since Logan was diagnosed on March 8. (April 4 to April 9).  We’ve been through three rounds of chemo, two major brain surgeries and multiple other surgeries. Not to mention numerous setbacks, side effects and a range of emotions!

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, as much as this whole situation sucks, it was meant to happen, Logan chose us to be his parents for a reason.  Don’t get me wrong…I HATE that my son has to go through this but WE can handle this and WE will OVERCOME!  Sometimes I sit and think that it’s not fair that someone else who is not so well off has a healthy child but if Logan was born to someone like that, he may not have had as much of a fighting chance as he does being our son.  Kevin and I not only have the support and financial means to be there for our son but we are also very blessed that I have the job that I have that I can take the time off work, as long as I need, to help care for our son and get him the help that he needs and will need in the future.  Yes it sucks that our son was born with cancer but we truly are lucky and grateful for the means that we have to help him get better!  If I didn’t work for Aflac, I wouldn’t have a flexible schedule, I wouldn’t have residual income, I wouldn’t have an Aflac cancer plan….all these things couple with my in laws being retired and able to help out whenever needed are true blessings.  Logan is our miracle baby and will continue to be that as he kicks the puck out of cancer.  This kid is going to have so many stories to tell.  We will have to get a notebook for him to keep track of which scar is from what surgery and explain to him how much he has overcome.

With all this being said, I do have to say that this round of chemo was the WORST!!!  We had so many obstacles to overcome.  I hit rock bottom.  Watching your child suffer the horrific side effects of chemo is heart wrenching!  Logan stopped taking the bottle at the end of Round 2 then after the second brain surgery (tumor resection) he stopped taking his binky.  He was being fed through an NG tube (a plastic tube through the nose, past the throat, and down into the stomach) for weeks then a few days after we started Round 3, he wasn’t tolerating his feeds anymore.  He couldn’t keep anything down, he would spit up every time they would increase the speed so then they would have to stop and restart again.  It was awful.  They finally decided to remove the NG tube and switch him to TPN (Total parenteral nutrition supplies all daily nutritional requirements via IV).

Now, let’s take it back to the day before that happened.  The doctors had scheduled an eye exam for Logan because there was concern he wasn’t tracking and hadn’t been for two days!  Mind you, I was on the way to my own doctor appointment, cried all the way there, in the appointment and on the way back to the hospital as we waited 5 hours for them to check Logan’s eyes after they dilated them.  Watching them pin him down on the bed and pry his eyes open to look inside them was nauseating!  And guess what….his eyes were (are) fine!

Fast forward to about day 17 of Round three and Logan’s heart rate spiked to about 180 bpm while he was sleeping and morphine didn’t touch it!!!  They then decided to do an EKG around 1am.  Thankfully that showed no concerns but why was his heartrate so elevated?!?!  We attested it to pain and just continued to monitor him.   By the next morning his heartrate was normal and he was fine.  A few days later his heartrate spiked again followed by a fever.  It was then determined with blood tests that he had an infection.  They drew labs from his central line and from his foot to see where the infection was.  Thankfully the infection was only in his central line.  They immediately began treating it with antibiotics.  A few days later his heartrate was elevated and he spiked a fever again so they decided to remove the central line.  WOW!  Thankfully after the central line was removed he had three days of negative cultures.  Unfortunately they had to put an IV in his foot and in his head to administer his TPN and his antibiotics.  That was only for a few days then they put in a PICC line (peripherally inserted central catheter).  So that’s another surgery in the books for Logan.  I have lost count as to how many surgeries this poor kid has had but I will tell you he handles anesthesia like a champ (put that on his resume…lol).  This infection set us back about two weeks, we were hoping to go home earlier but this was just another bump in the road!

I have no doubt that Logan WILL beat cancer and he will continue to have successful surgeries but the hardest part is watching him suffer the side effects of chemo and the surgeries…..from spitting up bile, dry heaving, muscle atrophy (he can’t hold his head up on his own anymore), he doesn’t take his binky (he LOVED his bink!), he has a hard time swallowing, he can’t suck, he won’t take a bottle.  He’s seven months old, he should be trying real food, rolling over, sitting up (this makes him sound like a dog)….but I can’t compare him to other kids, he is special and has his own path!!!!  He WILL overcome these deficiencies.  It might take some time but this kid is definitely bound for great things!!!!  It’s also scary when the doctor tells you that the more they talk about Logan’s diagnosis, the more they realize how rare his case is!  However, a lot of this is because we found and treated the tumor early with no symptoms. In some cases these types of tumors are untreatable in infants. The fact that Logan’s tumor is a congenital GBM allows for an aggressive treatment. Logan has tested positive for certain genetic markers, these markers allow the Doctors to collect data which will enable the development of new treatments.  So, this is ALL GOOD STUFF!!

His counts are UP and we are going HOME TOMORROW!!!!  I need this time home more than anything, our family needs this time together.  I will always be here for my son and support and advocate for him but when you live in a hospital 24 hours a day, 5-7 days a week on top of the emotional roller coaster, it wears on you!  Now that we are going home, I am feeling much better.  I need this break….I need to rest, recharge and reorganize.  We have been in the hospital for almost 4 months with a 5 day break!   We have two more rounds inpatient then Logan will have another year and a half of maintenance therapy.  We have a long road ahead of us but we will OVERCOME! There are still so many what ifs, what’s next, etc. but we have to remain positive, we have to continue to fight and pray!

We are all #LoganStrong!

#StrongasFogg

 

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Round 3 – 3 months since Logan’s diagnosis (3/8/17)

This post comes with a disclaimer that there will be no filter.  I have been feeling so many different emotions lately that I just need to get it out.  So I will apologize in advance if I offend or upset anyone.

Three months ago today our lives were turned upside down.  On one hand I can’t believe it’s already been three months but on the other hand I can’t believe it’s only been three months.  I can say, that this is NOT what we at all expected when we were planning for a baby.  But, I still believe, to this day, that this was meant to happen to us, that Logan chose us for a reason.  Don’t get me wrong, this SUCKS like BIG TIME but it is what it is and you push forward.  There are days, like yesterday, where I just stand in the shower and cry and beg for his pain to go away and to be healed.  Then I pick myself back up and keep going.

This week and this round of chemo has been the toughest so far.  My in-laws have been helping so much (so grateful) but they had to go back to North Carolina for the week. They have been here since Logan was first diagnosed.  So, this week it’s pretty much my husband and I, my mom is helping and so is my dad.  But not having my mother in law around is tough, she helped with laundry and meals.  Plus, Kevin is back to work full time so it’s really just me for about 20 hours a day.  Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t be anywhere else…but it’s very tough!  These 4 walls close in on you quick, there is only so much “extra-curricular” activities I can do.  I sit next to Logan’s crib while he sleeps or he sleeps on me.  I play with him, sit him up and move his arms and legs.  He also has PT, OT and Speech Therapy almost daily as well as different doctors coming in at different times during the day.    I can’t work (I’ve tried), it’s hard to read or listen to a book or focus on anything other than him.  I’m typing this while Logan is sleeping and getting a blood transfusion.

I’ve never seen a baby dry heave or spit up bile before…it was awful.  This round of chemo has been harsher on Logan for a couple of reasons.  He’s coming off of two major brain surgeries AND this is the third round of poison he is getting.  I have to say though that my kid is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G, he never screams or cries uncontrollably.  He just fusses or moans to say he is uncomfortable…thank god he is calm natured like my husband.  Don’t get me wrong though, he will tell you exactly like it is just like his mama!!  😉

Now here is where it gets real.  When he was first diagnosed on March 8, my phone, text, FB, messages were blowing up…I was very overwhelmed, gratefully overwhelmed.  But now, three months later, I’m lucky if I get one message (text, call or FB) a day.   It’s like you are a celebrity in the beginning (right Michelle?!?!) then nothing.  People you thought would be there for you aren’t and those that you never thought would be, are.  Then there are those that either don’t say anything or say the wrong thing.  There’s people that you give every opportunity to come visit but never show up then there are those that just show up at the worst times.  No one could ever prepare for this situation, no matter what side of the coin you are on. I totally get that everyone else has their own lives and their own thing going on but when you are trapped within 4 walls for days on end with a sick child with only a quick treat of a Starbucks coffee once a day (if you’re lucky to get out)…..it gets hard, real fucking hard!  I have totally lost ALL patience for minor things….like I am more of a bitch now than I ever have been.

I get people don’t want to bother me (us) at this point but even a quick text or message that says “Hey, I’m just thinking about you guys” or “you are in our prayers”.  Saying and doing nothing I feel is worse.  But with those quick messages, I can’t always respond, they are just nice to see!   I guess there is no right or wrong on either end of these circumstances.  It is what it is.

This situation really makes you appreciate what is important in life.  I find joy in going home just to take a shower and get ready in my own bathroom.  I enjoy driving down the road with my sunroof open on a nice day.  Hell…I would enjoy walking barefoot in a thunderstorm right now!  I am missing what every first time mother experiences…it fucking sucks!  I am angry, I am bitter, I am hurt, I am upset but I am also exactly where I am meant to be.  I love my son more than life itself and would do anything he needs to get better.  I HATE that he is going through this but am grateful that he will never remember…boy, this kid is going to be spoiled for the rest of his life!

Thank you for letting me vent…this is actually not as harsh of a post as I thought it would have been.  I’m having an okay day but if I would have wrote this last night, oh boy…the tone would have been way worse!

We truly appreciate the outpouring of love and prayers we have been receiving, that is really all we ask for.  Thank you for allowing us to share our story with you.

Please continue to pray and share Logan’s journey to help raise Childhood Cancer Awareness.

 

 

 

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